Death Card not as scary as it looks.
filed in Uncategorized on May.18, 2009
I’ve read tarot cards for friends and family since I was 16, and nothing freaks people out more than the Death card, especially if it shows up in the near future or final outcome positions (traditional Celtic method). What else could it mean, a reasonable person would ask, except that, ”Oh sh–, I’m a goner.”
This is understandable. I know it scared the crap out of me when I was given my first deck, the Medieval-style Rider/Waite. A skeleton, wearing black armor and riding a white horse, approaches a woman, a child, and a priest; they don’t look too happy to see him. The woman grieves, the child has fallen on the ground, and the priest pleads with Death to show some mercy, but that isn’t Death’s job. Fortunately, Death’s appearance in your reading will not have the same deleterious effect. And no, it NEVER means physical death, of you or anyone else.
A querent’s eyes will pop out when Death comes up in a reading, so I’m quick to say, “it’s actually a good card.” While that’s not entirely accurate –I need to calm them down somehow –it is also not a bad card, but it can be a difficult card. It means you’ve got a big change ahead of you; a big part of your life is going to end: the old will die, the new will be reborn. It signals letting something go and moving onto something else, a friendship that’s run its course, a relationship that doesn’t work anymore, a career that doesn’t suit you. Be comforted in knowing it’s not anyone’s fault, whatever is passing was meant to pass; it was it’s time.
Ironically, when the Death Card is reversed, that’s where we got trouble. I like to look at it as something that’s buried alive. Think of the folks in Monty Python being dragged out onto the wagons, crying “I’m not dead yet!” This is where we have stagnation, inertia, fear — by- products of hanging onto something that you need to let go of. When Death shows up reversed in a reading, you need to summon the strength to symbolically flip that card over: the change that will come is much less harmful than the rut you’re in. And you’ll grow spiritually.
